Why Birthdays ? …..once again thanks Annie , lol
Well we all have them , we cannot escape them , and each 1 we have , we either love or hate , some even pretend they don’t have em . Some even try to count backwards so they do not seem so old, lol, sorry that will not work . The reason for that being each 1 we have means we are that much older , that much tireder , that much more weary, if we are lucky we are that much happier . If you are a child mostly you just love them , can’t wait to grow up , love to see what you get for presents. Then you get to be a teenager , wow look at all the things you can now do , amazing isn’t it ?
Then we get to the years just out of the teen stage , wow now we can do even more if we put our minds to it , then as the years go by we we start to see things in a different light yet again, so by the time we get to say 25 ,we have yet another perspective on life,love,money, and we start to really see what is going on around us.
Another 5 years later perhaps we see that ooppss things are not as we thought and it is high time we worked out what our responsibilities are in the world. By now we realize that we can no longer just sit and watch the world go by , we have to contribute , we have to show what we are made of . We have to decide our role in life , if we will be good or if we will be evil, we all must make this choice , no one gets out of it . The choices we make now will shape our lives for the rest of them .
Now we are getting further on and we see just what our choices have bought us , has it bought love, laughter, happiness, money ??? If it has not then we still have time to change things , to re make the choices we made first . It is never too late to change . By now we realise too that each Birthday is bringing us closer to the end of things , some love to have Birthdays , some wish they could stop them but still go on . Some hate them as they bring back bad memories , but love them or hate them , they will always come around once a year.
So we are stuck with them , we can not change them but we can be happy about them if we care to and not let them be spoilt . Just think of the alternative if we don’t have them huh ? Lol exit stage left. so we really need to accept them and enjoy as much as we can , or face the alternative. As for me I will try to just have fun with as many as are allotted to me , and be thankful .
So like men, love em or leave em you still have to deal with them, lol, specially husbands , they seem to always be there demanding attention , just like Birthdays , lol only more often , and if you have a husband then that is at least 2 you have to worry about each year. Add children to the mix and ooppss here the Birthday problem gets more difficult , depending on how many you have to add to the mix. Makes you wonder who started all this Birthday nonsense doesn’t it ? I bet they had no children , no husbands and no idea of how it would affect others , might have had a re think if they had , one can only hope .
Birthdays , here for good whether you like them or not , so make the most of it , the more you have , the more you have seen , done ,experienced , lived….be thankful for them , I know I sure am..
How many roads must a man walk down before he admits he is lost. ??