Stalking the fun way , or as I call it , the way my husband did it .
Have you ever just been sitting and minding your own business, sitting in a chat room , before you even knew twitter or faceache ,errrrr faceboook ever existed , and yes there was a time when these never existed lol . and all of a sudden , someone who you have been talking to in a chat room , private messages you and starts to talk romance ?? Well when it happened to me it was weird , took me a while to cotton on to what he was really saying, and when I did , what did I do ? Apart from giggle and think he was nuts that is , lol, and he still is nuts.
Well what anyone would do right off , once you get over the surprise , tell him to F*** off , dont be daft , I do not know you . Well being the very good little Girlie i am ( stop laughing its true 😛 ) , I did just that . Did he listen ? lmao do men ever listen ? Well of course they don’t , we all know that . Well right I thought , here we go will have to use language even he can understand , so here we go , I said there are 4 things that stop me from talking to you this way .
1 Your too young
2 Your too fat ( he was then )
3 Your too bald ( still is ) lol sorry babe
4 Your way too far away .
As he was in London and I was in Brisbane I thought , ok that should get him to piss off and leave me alone . Did it ? Lol not a chance , he said it was just more of a challenge this way . So he kept at me and at me for well over a month , till eventually I began to see that we had so very much in common , there were so many things we both liked. So I thought what could go wrong ? ( sheeesh what a question ) So talk we did and as we talked we really got to know each other and found more and more things we liked about each other . Then with the help of Skype we really fell in love , well now the distance became a problem , but 1 way and another we got over that hurdle , thanks mostly to a friend , who we have still not met in person , who gave me the 1st ticket to London. We took it from there and eventually through a lot of trials and tribulations , we made it together , find it hard to believe that is just on 10 years ago ( wow time flies )
During this time we have done a lot of travelling I personally have flown many ,many miles and loved every minute of it , have developed a real love of flying now which to me is a bonus, only thing is it also makes you want to keep travelling , you get itchy feet .
So back to this here stalker , yes you Rick 😛 lol now I love you to bits but when all this was going on , you drove me nuts , in a good way tho I must add here . He proved to me that …
1 Men are pests ..lol
2 Persistence I.E Stalking lol pays off when done right. Boy oh boy did he do it right , every time i went to bed , he was on Skype wishing me good night , when I got up there he was again , wishing me good morning ,every time I turned around he was there 1 way or another . The vast distance between us at the beginning was a pain but it led to us being together ( So thats all good then ) lmao sorry Rick xxx What also was lovely was the cards, the flowers, and the constant knowing he was there . I had never been treated this way in all my life so just loved it , and he still spoils me rotten every day , and of course I love it , who wouldn’t ? .
So if you are going to stalk please do it the right way and it can be a lot of fun for all concerned as it was for us, it won’t be easy , nothing ever is , but lol, it can give you a lot of giggles , trust me been there done that ..