How did you meet ?? Your other half your best friend ??
We meet each other in funny ways sometimes, sometimes we meet at school, or a dance , or at Church , or on the internet , there are just so many ways we meet the ones who end up becoming our other half., or a best friend . So how did you meet yours ?
As for me I was as Rick puts it stalked lol , he tells anyone who will listen that he stalked me till I panicked and gave in , lol , its true too . Not for 1 single instant have I regretted that either , its been a wild ride at times but worth it all. I was just sitting in a chat room on irc, minding my own business , when he started talking to me in PM. Thought ok see what he has to say , cant hurt can it ? lol if only I had known then , still would have done the same thing. So here I listening to him suddenly realised exactly what he was saying !! huh ?? wait , back the truck up ! he wants to what ? Oh he wants us to be more than friends ?? wow never saw that coming , lol , right out of left field.
So what to do ? 1st thing put him off , he can’t be serious can he ? Ok so tell him no we can not for 3 reasons , 1 your too young , 2 you’re too bald , 3 your too far away , that should fix him right ? Lol did it heck , just made him all the more persistent , all the more determined , he was not about to give up. Why ? because despite me saying what I was I did feel an attraction to him even from half a world away . So he kept it up until as he says I gave in , lol, then we spent every moment we could together ( on Skype ) lol burned up the wires big time we did till we could finally be together for real.
So we are now still together just on 10 years now , still love each other to bits , in fact more now than ever , we just seem to compliment each other so well , we even finish each others sentences at times lol , see what the right sort of stalking can get you ?? In our case a great marriage , and deep friendship as well , the 2 go together as far as I am concerned .How can you be real partners if you cannot be best friends too ?
So how did you meet your other half ? I am sure there must be other stories of meeting that are as weird or more so , I have heard of people meeting at work , or just on a train or bus going to work. Some have met at churches , some at dances , there are so many ways and means to meet . Has anyone used a dating service ? If so did it work ? or was it just a huge waste of time and money ? Did you meet through other family members ? like a friend of a brother or a sister turn out to be the 1 for you ? How about a blind date ? anyone been set up like that ? Some have even met by all sorts of funny accidents , yet still they end up together .
If like me you were told oh don’t be so silly you cannot go half way around the world just to meet a man , he might be an axe murderer or something , do not go !! lol how many times I got told that before I left was really funny . Also funny ( well not really ) was the fact that I was never credited with having the brains to have a back up plan if he indeed was not all I thought he was. In fact I had 2 back up plans in place I was not at all worried , had sense enough to put it all in place before I left, after all it is a dam long way from Australia to London , trust me on that , lol, had a numb bum by the time I got there .So despite all the negatives it all was exactly how we expected it to be , has anyone been put off by all the negatives ?
I know I have asked a lot of questions here but would really love to hear back if anyone has the time , it is an interesting topic , well to me anyway …lol .
We were making out on the couch. She said “Let’s take this upstairs” So I said “Ok you grab one end and I’ll grab the other”