Changes ………. what changes have you made ?
Changes can be in everything we do , everything we say , everything we believe , are you open to change ? Have you made changes ? have these changes been for the better or the worse ? Have you made the changes because you wanted to ? Or because you were forced into it by people or circumstances ?
Let us try to understand change , if we do not change at least some things we may end up in all sorts of trouble . On the other hand if we do not change some things we may end up better than we ever dreamed of . I myself have had so many changes to make it is enough to make you dizzy , trust me on that there has been so many but all for different reasons . Some have been to get me out of terrible situations , others to make a new start , all have been so different it is amazing , but changes had to be made , and made they were for better or worse. Happy to say most of them have turned out to be for the better so have no complaints , yes even going over seas and marrying a Pom lol best move I made in a very long time . He may be a pest, a procrastinator, and downright annoying at times , but lucky for him he is very loveable …lol
So what mainly are reasons for change ? Situations , mostly seem to be the number 1 reason people change what they are doing and maybe even where they live , so obviously the changes were needed and needed as soon as possible , so like me , you guard your back and , close your eyes and ears to what others say ,and do it. The reason I say close eyes and ears to what others say is that too often we hear the wrong people , and in so doing do not make the right changes. So if a big change or changes are needed you have to do with all your might once you know you are doing the right thing , or are as sure as you can be it is the right way to go. Always have a plan B tho that is essential I learned that the hard way when some of the changes that had to be made came a little unstuck , I only let that happen once , never again have always had a plan B after that .
There are so many reasons to change another may be that the job you have has come to an end , so you need to move to get other employment , and even tho that is an almighty headache in the long run it can be the best thing. No one is saying it is easy to change , especially if you have lived or worked in the same place for many years , I found that a very hard part of all the changes I had to make , but it can be done .Once the change is made , and you have got used to your new surroundings and new job you gradually see it was for the best . It can take a while after a change to settle down again into the new situation but you do eventually get there and it all comes together . The hardest of all the changes is the one forced on you by the deeds of others , those are made generally in a stressed state , but they too can be good once the stress is relieved and you finally relax . Moving is a giant pain in the posterior at the best of times but sometimes like it or not change is the only way , so embrace it , do it , then relax … Another thing about change is that we soon learn that there are more important issues than the ” things ” we own and treasure we don’t need so many things we can do without them very well , once we come to that conclusion we do just fine.
Very few things upset my husband. So, it makes me feel rather special that I am one of them……. Giggles 🙂