Try not to ?? Try not to what exactly ? Lol to get run over by life ! Have you ever noticed how at times the amount of things that suddenly seem to go wrong all at once ? You are just cruising along do what you do , trying to just get on with people , trying to do whatever you do each day without wanting or needing any drama , plodding along as you do .. When all of a sudden something goes wrong or partly wrong and you get all stressed out about it wondering what on earth made that happen , could you have done anything to make it better? but mostly the answer is no you couldn’t .So you fix it or do what needs doing and off you go again to the next thing again doing what you have always done and plodding along again.
Then once again ” Bam ! ” it all goes wrong again just like that ,no warning no notice and again you get stressed out because this is now the second thing to go wrong when nothing should at all . So muttering darkly under your breath you get it all sorted again and once again calm down and stop stressing and hope it will not happen again . By this time 2 things you do all the time with no problems have gone wrong , so crossing fingers and everything else you get on with things again and yes , yet again something you always do without a problem now goes wrong too , and again you are left wondering ” Huh ? ” what now ? What have I done to deserve this ?
Well it is like this what has happened is called ” Life ” and this thing called life that we all cling to so hard does have this thing about it that every now and then it decides you have had things going well for too long and decides to shake you up a bit . When it decides this anything and everything can and will go wrong , always remember that our friend Murphy was an optimist , lol , when he said ” anything that can go wrong will go wrong ” When it does it usually does so in such a way that leaves you wondering at times why you bother at all , it is all just too hard .
Let me tell you it is always worth ” keeping going ” as the alternative is not to be even thought of , there are so many things to be thankful for , so many things we have and can do so many lovely things in our lives to make it worth going on . We have so many people in our lives to love and be with and we do not want to hurt them by quitting now do we ? Anyway it is more fun I find to learn to duck when life starts chucking things at you , poke your tounge out at it and say no way will you beat me , no way will you get me to give in I win !! I for 1 love the winning feeling that you get when the things that went wrong all at once you have the power to fix and you do it and it is right game over you win !! All I have to do is remember all the things I now have , all the places I have been and right then and there I know I am a winner and it sure makes me feel good .
So the way I see it is as we get older and hopefully wiser ..lol yeah right … too many don’t get wiser .. we learn to duck and weave better thereby missing some of the things life decides you need to do or have . We do not always have to just blindly accept what gets chucked at you all you need to do is turn around and catch it in both hands like a ball and say right … now I have it now I will do it my way , and by doing this enough times we learn to not exactly beat life but learn to cope better and after a while it is much easier each time. So get a good catchers mitt …. lol by that I mean get a new attitude to life and what it throws and learn to not let it get to you , after all it is not just you that this is happening to it happens to all of us none are exempt .
Just think how boring life would be if everything was just steady , if nothing ever went wrong , if we never had to put our thinking caps on and fix things that went wrong . If we never had those sorts of challenges we would soon lose the ability to think and to solve problems so we need these challenges to keep us sharp and on the ball , and by learning to duck and weave so to speak we help ourselves . In our efforts not to be run over by the truck called life we just need to be a little more flexible in our way of thinking and not be afraid to ask for a little help at times . I would rather the challenges than just to kind of doze off because things have got so boring zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz wouldn’t you ? lol
I wonder if people wonder what I wonder, because I wonder what people wonder. Do YOU wonder what I wonder? Now THAT is what I wonder. I wonder what you’re wondering as you wonder what I wonder, if of course you’re even wondering what I’m wondering… I wonder..