Perfectly matched …. In every way , in every way we think , things we do , things we want to do , places we have been and places we want to go , even the things we do not realise we do together , so attuned to each other that yes , we do finish each others sentences at times , lol yes it does happen and usually results in much laughter. Do you know any other couple like that ? A couple who just fit so well together ( no not that ..lol minds out of gutter please ) You are both going about your day , doing what you do and all of a sudden you find yourself giggling because something has reminded you of your other half and you know very well just what he would say and you automatically say it to yourself just as if he or she was there with you .
So many things that the longer you are together the more you seem to meld , the more you seem to almost become the other as your thinking and the way you do things just becomes more and more the same . This is not a bad thing I think it is a great thing as it shows how well you are suited to each other so it means you hardly ever fight because there is little or no friction as you already know how each other will think on any given occasion or anything else . It makes things just go that much more smoothly knowing you don’t have to stress about things because you already know how the other half will react , makes for a great relationship and eases a lot of stress in a relationship.( lol and saves you from wanting to kill ) He’s lucky at that lol .
So imagine if there are small children how much better life will be for the children if mum and dad are so well matched that the stress level is down to almost zero and the children have nothing but love to help them grow . Even in marriages where there are no small children you still need this relaxed and much better way of life , because even the best of marriages will break up under duress if the relationship itself is rocky . These relationships will only get better where the husband and the wife are so well matched , it just seems to take the heat right off and therefore makes the stress diminish and that’s all good then …lol * sorry dear *
Another thing that works so well for such couples is the way they can run the house , the way they can plan holidays , and the places they can go for nights out and a bit of relaxation . As they think so much alike choosing the places they go is easy as they both love the same things , even the simple things like helping with chores or being the one to go do the shopping is all so much easier when both think the same , well almost the same so each knows what to get or where to go . Helping each other also becomes an automatic thing it just happens usually without any questions needing to be asked . This alone makes for a wonderful relationship within the marriage and makes problem solving a lot easier than if there is too much in the relationship they do not agree on.
It often makes me wonder if most people even wait to see if they have this same oneness together , and if so how are there so many divorces , or fights or even * shudder * murders ?? Maybe if the couple had taken a little more time to really get to know each other then these things would not happen .It seems though that people are in too much of a hurry to wait , they just want what everyone else has and to be like everyone else , so do not take the time needed to really think it all through and make sure it will work . A pity it is like this as usually it is the resulting children that will bear the brunt of a miss match.Then they rush into a marriage that is fraught with trouble right from the start .
So yes me and hubby might be perceived to be ” nuts ” lol that is fine with us as we are the first to admit this , we are nuts and love every bit of it , makes the marriage way more fun that it would be otherwise. Sometimes I think if anyone walked in on us sometimes they might think we need medical help , lol, as when we are bouncing off each other ( no not that again ya dirty sods lol ) as in watching TV and knowing other lines that fit in and we say them out loud and much laughter ensues , yes we are nuts and we are proud of it as it means we are still very much in love. If the laughter ever stops or the teasing then I know we will be in big trouble , but hopefully the teasing and laughter will never stop. It is a very big part of our relationship and we love every bit of it , the laughter keeps us strong in each other and keeps us relaxed together.
So if you are thinking of marriage please at least take time to make sure you will be happy together that you will blend with each other and that it is not just a passing fancy . Taking the time before you get married is the best way and hopefully prevents the splitting up a bit later on which only hurts everyone involved. Marriage should not be looked on as a status symbol , a thing to get to be able to say yes I have that , it is not like that at all as it involves way more than that , it is not now and never will be a status symbol .
Do you ever get the feeling that you’re being watched? Because if it’s bothering you, I’ll stop.