Archive | December 2016


Moods  … We all have them and if anyone says they don’t then they are lying , there is not 1 person on the earth that cannot be happy 1 minute and full of anger or frustration or sudden elation  , it happens to all of us and really why does this happen ? What causes this changing of moods ? Many will get angry if you say they are moody  as somehow this word has been made to be  a bad word when in actual fact it is not , as well have mood changes we all have what is called mood swings . We would not be human if we didn’t  we would be more like robots  and yes how very well I know as a lot of people do  indeed seem like robots  but that is just a persona and inside they really do have feelings/moods  they just decide to hide them , and  I think this is not a good thing at all for a person.

Whatever it is that causes these moods and what causes them to change sometimes over years sometimes over  moments or as can often be the case right in an instant . The causes of mood changes are  many and varied , it can be a little thing  that someone does or says that can  cause it or it can  be something you read  , whatever the cause  it happens to all there is no getting away from that , as it is more than obvious  that someone’s mood has changed , it shows almost instantly  in their behaviour . Mood changes are not something you can hide yet some still try to hide them  why I do not know , easiest thing  I think is to say right out  , hold on I have changed my mind. It is a mind change on something/everything  that causes the mood driving it to change .

So ok we all have mood changes  some instant some not  but it is how we handle them that makes either for a lot of problems or solves them or gives a way out of a situation . If  a mood change is handled correctly then all surrounding issues  usually  get sorted quite quickly , but if they are not then I’m guessing we all know how things can go from bad to worse in an instant .I  for 1 have experienced a mood change so devastating   that I ripped an entire hospital ward  a new 1 , I went right off my rocker at every staff member there , I have never ever been that angry in my life before , won’t go into details but it worked and we got the results we needed at the time  , never ever want to have to do that again.

It  goes to prove though how easily it can happen to anyone  given the right situation , when we went there I had absolutely no plan or idea of getting so angry , but it happened  and it worked , I definitely  do not recommend it  at all it had an effect on me too . So drastic mood changes like that can have drastic effects  some good or some bad  but everyone has them  and deals with them  in 1 way or another , right or wrong how we handle them soon makes itself  evident . So if you meet someone who asserts that they are nice and quiet and never get upset  you can bet your life they are fibbing  because we are all human ( supposedly  )  so all have moods so hiding them makes no sense and makes you look  something less than human .

Having moods and mood swings is quite normal so why people try to cover the fact that they are actually human and say they do not have them is something  I will never understand . Why anyone wants/needs to try and conceal these feelings is more than  I will ever understand as all that does is make you more closed in , and you begin to withdraw from everything and everybody  so cannot be very good for you . I think it is that we have  so many people world wide   who do this all the time is why we have so many unstable  and angry people , because they try to hide real feelings and pretend that they do not have them.  I just try hard to let things and life go by as it will and handle them as they come and deal with whatever it throws at me , lol so far so good I’m still here  , but seriously  it can be the hardest thing to just keep going when you really do not want to … really is a case of ” pull up your big girls knickers and get on with it  ”

Me and my husband are happily married  …I just haven’t told him yet ..

Before I get busy doing nothing … I usually  take a 20 minute break …


Oh Really ??

Oh really ? ….. Lol  just how many times  do we say or think this when  you hear people say or read something that is as obvious as the  nose on your face ? There are times when you actually wonder at the sanity of some people  when they come up with a statement  so damn obvious  that  it really , really did not  need saying  like ” oh  it’s raining ” I mean really  ? Like you don’t know that yourself by the actual fact you are getting wet or about to , sheesh  why say it ? Why bother  when it is so blatantly obvious , I mean how would you not know you are getting wet  ? Lol  what planet would you have to be on not to know that  ? If  you can’t see or  feel water hitting you  then Duhh  go back to  bed you will be safer that way  and so will the rest of us.

There are so many things that fall into this category  that it’s hard  to pick just a few  but lol let’s have a giggle and try …Go to the grocery store pick  up a pack of peanuts  and what does it say on the pack ? ” caution may contain nuts ” well Duhh  it better as that’s why I got it in the first place  ..sheesh …Or someone gives you a cuppa they just made and even  though you are an adult…well maybe ..some are and some not  …lol  they say to you careful now it’s hot , lol   no really ?? never would have guessed   even though I saw the kettle boiling  just a few mins ago ….sheesh ..Have even had people say to me when out walking  oh the light is red  we have to stop …lol. again no! really ? !  I really do wonder  at people sometimes  yes  I know I just said that but really look around you they are everywhere  so watch yourself or you will find one too

I think my favourite is when you buy alcohol of any type you get a warning that it has alcohol in it  …lol  it bloody better if I bought it  , then it tells you it may be intoxicating  ….giggles  sorry  thats another case of  no! really! ?! That is just so  funny  I just giggle all the time  , I mean why would you be buying  it   if it did not have the alcohol in it , after all it is great for cooking as well as drinking . Also  you may go out for takeaway  food , not having the time to cook or the inclination  so you grab a fast food  and when they give you a …wait for it  …. lol…Hot Apple Pie!  then they tell you  warning contents maybe hot!! lmao here well Duhh I bloody hope so it’s what I asked for ….sheesh …I give up …

Next on the list frozen food , lol have to laugh  at this it says  , this is frozen food and needs to be kept in the freezer until needed ….say what ? lol no!really!?  Where do they think you are going to put it  ? in the oven ? in a cupboard somewhere ? Makes you wonder how silly  people have been over the years that makes warnings like this even needed , how many people put frozen stuff in the cupboard before they decided they  have to label it  with a warning ?? I say again people are nuts  and best to be avoided  if you can sometimes unless you have your  armour on ….and strapped on tight too …it’s scary out there  …

Lol now I come to one of what I think is the funniest there is …sleeping pills !! lol yes even they have a warning ..” caution  may cause drowsiness ” well Duhh I knew that it’s why I got them for heavens sake  and if they didn’t why would  I even bother to get them in the first place  ? sheesh …Once again I ask how many people did something or said something stupid that requires  such a warning  ? One more time  I say people are nuts and I keep wondering how some  of them are even still alive * shakes head  * giggles *

With all my wondering and  looking into  this subject I find myself torn between 2 things , is it the fact that people are really that stupid  or is it all part of this dumbing down of people going on with all this ridiculous  ” political correctness ” ? There are arguments for both sides yes  and also  a bit of both   can be found  but really  nothing stands out as one thing   that has made people so  stupid . Was it their desire to  test things too much  or just sheer stubbornness and not bothering to read labels  or listen to what they are told that has bought this about  ? We all know how damn stubborn  some people  can be after all , some will swear black is white even though you show them  the truth   so what can you do ?

About all you can do as  I see it is …watch out and take cover!!  lol they are everywhere  so no one  is safe  keep your armour on at all times away from the house ….

As this  the last blog before xmas …may I take time to wish all who read this a very merry xmas and a wish for you all to have a wonderful New Year ….love you all for reading these ..

After 6 months of my husband nagging, I finally did it, I lost 120lbs … I’m sure gonna miss him….


Pointless …. How many things do we do in life that turn out to be totally pointless? My guess is there are so many you cannot count them  and  I will show you just some of them , lol and you will see that we worry too much about too many things , but even knowing this we still do it . Makes you wonder if we will ever learn ?? Lol….somehow I  doubt it  we are creatures of habit and we seem unable to change those habits we have learned over years and years of doing the same things , they worked once so why wouldn’t they work again ? So we use them over and over  and  so on and so on , never thinking it might be a good idea to change  what we are doing to make it easier on ourselves. I guess thinking is just too hard for too many of us

So the first pointless thing ? We  say to ourselves  we will keep things that really should be thrown out or re-cycled or given away , so we keep them and keep them  , then all of a sudden we find we really have to get rid of them and now we are faced with a load of work  that could have been avoided  if we had but used our noggins. So keeping all this stuff for so long was pointless for 2 reasons ..1 it made a ton of extra work  we did not need and ..2  if after all this time we have not needed it  the why did we keep it  ? The number one reason we keep things is ” incase  we need it later ” lol and you can bet your life that almost 100% of the time we never do need them  but we never learn. Learning  just like thinking is way too much work  and we are too slow to realise we are just making more work  by not doing it the first time .

So what else is pointless  ? Keeping  on caring about people and things  you think  might help you at some point  unlike things  people are harder to  move away from than a pile  of stuff, we hang on and hang on until  we finally see keeping up with them is pointless and may indeed be harmful to us . I am sure we all  have come across people that we would have been better off not getting involved with  but we do not see that for some time . Thankfully we had 1 like that and finally saw it and  drew away from her  and since then have been very careful  in who we let get close , no more toxic  people for us if we can help it  we are way more vigilant  now and are  much happier .

Another pointless thing we do and this makes me giggle is we spend far too much time searching on the internet for things that are sometimes right in front of us , we rely on it rather than on what we could find out  by just going out and asking a few questions …lol yes  I know men hate asking  questions or for directions  but trust me sometimes it works  well and saves a lot of time .Even when we get the answer  we want on the internet  some people still go on and on and on and keep looking when we  have already got the answer. I know it  is good to get conformation  but to just keep on and on on 1 subject is so silly , so there is a perfect example of doing something pointless  we have the answer in the first couple of times we searched  but we don’t accept that . I think if that is the case going out and asking a question of the right people would have been the best idea.

There are also things that seem pointless as you never ever  get them finished ..what do I mean  ? I mean things like housework, weeding, shopping, working , and all the other fun things you have to just keep doing and doing and doing because no matter how many dishes you wash or how  much cleaning you do or how many times you do the washing  …there is always more!!  Arrrggh  these things are never finished  but to live as a civilised  person you have to keep doing them , there are times when I would just love to say sod it I am not doing anymore , but as  I love my hubby  lol ( it’s all his fault  )  I keep on doing them . To be fair though I do feel better when house is clean and clothes are fresh  so I suppose I can’t blame him entirely … sod it  …

One of the most pointless  things we do and a lot do it , is to follow blindly  people and things that tell you it/they  can make you a lot of money , people will do extraordinary  things just chasing money , until we realise how pointless it is  we do ourselves no good at all , money is not the answer to everything  , yes it is nice to have enough , but do we really need anymore? If we have enough for our needs why chase after more and more ? It is not only time consuming  and it wears you out and frustrates  you , it is ultimately  nothing more than another pointless thing we do  , we should just enjoy what we have and not go overboard  on pointless things . ..


If I want your opinion, I’ll ask you to complete the necessary forms….


You know what’s funny? Obviously neither do I or I wouldn’t be asking.

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Husbands !!!

Husbands !! …. Lol  how many women and how many times has this been said in sheer exasperation  at the men in our lives  ? Wondering just  how many times in a  year or maybe make that a day even , lol, we say that , it does not  matter how much we love them  there are still so many times we want to scream or even strangle them . They can be the most infuriating species on the planet , and my guess is there are a lot of women who feel like this too  , as  I said at times the most infuriating  things ever .and there are a lot of infuriating things on the planet , trust me

Husbands who come and ask you where something is  , you tell them they go away and come back and tell you , nope , it is not there , so you go with them only to find that as you knew all the time is was there but they could not see it because it was right in front of them. Those are  definitely the times when we want to strangle them , why can’t they see it  ? They can’t because it is right in front of them and that seems to be a purely  a male thing  this is the conclusion I have come to as it only seems to be males  that cannot see something right in front of them. Makes me wonder sometimes why more of them do not get strangled lol it is so annoying  but we still love them ( silly aint it  ? )  lol…

Husbands  who say how much they love helping you around the house but never seem to get the time to actually do anything  always seem to be just  ” Too busy ” with more important things , and they must be done first …lol  of course they do ..we know that  why do you think the phrase  ” If I do it myself then  I will know you did it  ”  came into being  we just do it ourselves and pretend they did it  , trust me it is  much better for our sanity and their health if we do this  . Cannot count the times I have asked for help and just ended up doing it myself as it is much easier and better for his health if  I do me on this . Took me a week once just to get him to go out to the shed and get something out of it  and even then I almost had to kick his butt.   just to get it done then !

Husbands will never ask for directions , lol yes that is so true  that is why the  whole world knows about it and makes  so many jokes about it , but to this day  I have not found out why they are so stubborn , am inclined to think it is a masculine thing  they are afraid  they will look less manly  if they ask . Just go a bit further they say we will find it  , it does not enter their heads  that to just keep going  might be just going in the wrong direction  and then all steps have to be retraced  back the way we were  going .what a waste of time and energy ,like them sometimes lol. Times like these make you wonder why you married them in the first place and  if murder can be legal  just this 1 time …sheeesh ..

Husbands  who love to fiddle with things they should not before getting professional help , and no not those things lol , mind out of the gutter please  …sheeesh … I am talking things electrical or plumbing or automotive , or unless he is an IT bloke the computers too or phones etc. I laugh the most when him not being able to fix it , asks me , I look and then show him how to fix it , lol and yes it does happen  that’s when I laugh the most … I know it’s not nice but then again  who cares  ? lol was his own fault ..  As I keep telling him it is all ” self inflicted ”  he started it  so there …When they do decide it is time to help it has got to be at the speed they want to help and not 1 bit faster  so again  you may just as well forget them helping . Even if there is more than 1 thing needs doing they will do 1 and say  that will do the rest can wait ….that is the time  I really want to kick his butt or worse  if you are already doing things why not finish them all  ? Then you can sit down and relax and have a drink  …makes sense to me get jobs done then you got more time to rest  once they are all done ..

What is wrong with men’s brains …On the right side there is nothing left and on the left side there is nothing right …

The trouble with men is …you can’t live with them and they won’t let you shoot them …