Why Can’t We

Why can’t we  just be ourselves  ? Why do we have to go on an endless pursuit  to ” make ourselves better ”  Why can’t we just accept  the way we are  ? Why do we  listen to all this rubbish  that they try  to ram down our throats ? Things like you are too short  , or too fat , or you’re hair is all wrong , you need to put this stuff on  your face or   you need to shower in this stuff   and wash  your hair  in this stuff , if you do not then you are not going to be good enough and not going to be in with the crowd , and it seems that these days everyone wants to be in with the crowd , must admit it amazes me just how many people  listen to and go along with all the hype ,not stopping until they have all the in gear. How have people come to this that they  cannot bear to live without being in the  ” in crowd  ” ? Why are their lives so shallow that they run after this stuff all the time ?

Every day  on  TV in the papers in magazines  the people running things do nothing but  convince our kids that they will never be good enough  until they have all the latest  gear , and do all the latest things like being seen at all the popular places , be there or be square they  waffle on and sad to say the gullible  kids , not old enough to have any experience  go on at parents  who are exhausted  and give in to them . Parents these days have an even worse job trying to raise kids , everyone tells them they cannot discipline them or they will have them taken off them  so parents feel defeated  and so cave in to the wants of the kids . Wants that are so many and  varied    that it takes  them by surprise but they still give in so they do not upset their kids , kids also know that they have the upper hand and learn to wield it very early on in age .

Why can’t we  fix this  ? We cant fix it because it has gone on too long , for too long parents  have been told  you will not upset your kids so now they are too scared  to do anything but give into them , hence we are now seeing  a generation   that care for no one but themselves  and that is just heart breaking , as a mother it just breaks my heart when  I see young kids  tell their parents ” don’t you tell me what to do ” saw this with my own eyes  one night  when we were out  to dinner , kid was only about 5 or 6 too , it was dreadful to see something like that from someone so young . We have let this happen over time , we never objected loud enough when the government’s  around the world started to tell us what we could and could not do with our own children .

Why can’t we fix it now  ? because it is way too late and the  ” Politically Correct ”  bullies have now taken over and if we try to fight them we end up in even more trouble . These days I seriously doubt anyone even tries anymore they know they are beaten and just give in to what they are so sure they  cannot beat , it is sad because if they tried hard enough I am sure  they could make some inroads into changing  things back to the way they were before the interference  started . Cannot remember the last time anyone even tried to get the rights of parents back again , so they could raise their children the way they want to the way they should be . In saying that  I do not for 1 minute advocate violence toward our kids but the odd smack now and then to teach them respect is fine as long as it is just a small smack to get their attention and explain  what they did wrong .

Why can’t we  ? We can’t because as  i said we have become too weak in our own rights as parents , we have let them take those rights away so no child even gets taught what respect is , I bet if you asked a few kids today what it is and what it does very few would have a clue  as they have not been taught because parents are not allowed to teach them. What we do now is anyone’s guess  but we must never give up trying to do the right thing , it is too easy to just sit back and give in but we must resist the urge  to give in and try to find a way  forward . Would it not be great to see kids around who do not scream and yell  and do not throw hissy fits  when they are in public ? Would it not also be great to go out to dinner and be able to have a nice quiet dinner without being assaulted by the screaming of other peoples kids ? That would be just wonderful  but sadly does not happen and  I do not even know if there is a place  anymore where you can go that  does not allow kids  in  so you can have a nice quiet dinner . Years ago  kids under 16 were not even allowed in most of these  places and that was a good thing as they were not corrupted  by gambling and drinking, that should never have been changed .

 

I would like to thank my legs. Without them I would not be standing here today….

“Don’t try this at home”…Okay, i’ll try it at my friend’s house..

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What Do We Really Know?

What do we really know  ? ….What do we really know about things we maybe should know a lot about , do we really know our  neighbours? They may live just next door,  and have lived there for many years but  I am betting we don’t really know who they are , what they believe , what they really like , etc.etc.etc. Let’s face it no one ever really tells anyone else  everything about themselves , nor should we expect them to we need to keep somethings  to ourselves . What do we really know about our own governments  ? We only get to know what they tell us and if we have even an ounce of brain we never take for granted that they tell us is even the truth sometimes it is not even  near the truth as they all have their own agendas , no matter what party they are from all of them are the same no matter what label they go by ,all driven by money.

What do we really know about all these terrorists ? Again we only know what the media  chooses to tell us and mostly that is only a semblance of the truth , they know full well that if we know the whole truth the whole world will be awake to them and they do not want that as they are making too much money out of us not knowing . Why do you think there never , ever seems to be a good answer  to this terrifying  scourge that is in the world today ? Where do you think they get the money from to keep up their endless supply of guns and ammo and dynamite ? They get it from the  governments  who have their own interests at heart and know full well that if it was stopped the money trail would also stop and they would get no more , and that is the last thing they want .You cannot tell me that there is not enough armies of the whole world able  to stop these vengeful killers , they are not stopped because  it is not to their best wishes to stop them they want them to keep killing the more the merrier as it is less for them to have to try and control and that’s just what  they want .

What do we really know about Global Warming or Climate Change  ? Well I can tell you right now  that both are a scam set up to do exactly what they have achieved , they have convinced the world that they  need to spend and spend and spend  to stop something that is not real . Such a good job has been done on these scams that they are literally  laughing all the way to the bank making  billions  all based on a huge lie , and sold to a very weak accepting public . They have been systematically  dumbing down the world so that their scams will be accepted and man has it worked , so much so that the  things that we never would have accepted are now deemed as normal  , perversion is now normal and yet we wonder  why the world  is going  to put it in a way an author  once put it * To Hell In A Handbasket * Until we wake up it will only get worse …..If we wake up that is..

What do we really know  about the food we eat ? Do we really know what exactly the big businesses  are putting into it? We have no idea what they do to the food we eat the only safe way to eat is if we grow all our own and have nothing from the big corporations at all , but who honestly has the time or money to do that  ? All the big corporations know full well we are not able to do this no matter how much we want to , things have been set up so well that we now are powerless to change things back to the simple untouched way we used to grow things . No pesticides ,  no added this and that  nothing but good soil and sun and rain, no interference at all , totally natural  the way it was meant to be.

What it all boils down to is that we do not ever  really know what is going on in so many things unless we take the time to research everything  as  I said once before in a blog . I sort of re-visited  this subject because of things that have  happened all over the world , and seeing people leaping into  judgement and not having done any research at all  getting it all wrong and getting all upset  about all the wrong things . What we really know is ,to be honest   only what the powers that control everything  the big wigs that control the money want us to know , and that is only what suits them not what we really should know . The big few with all the money will never tell the truth because that does not suit what they are doing at all . What they are doing is really quite easy to see , they are turning everything into , 1 world government , 1 world religion , 1 world currency , and until they finish it  they will say and do whatever it takes  to keep us in the dark . Another well worn but correct saying is ..Follow The  Money  and it is forever true as money is now the  god of this world and always will be until the end sadly .

 

There must have been a sale on cranky pants today, everyone’s wearing them!

 

I’m good at sleeping , I can do it with my eyes closed.😞   

Add Breaks

Add Breaks    love them or hate them, and yes most people hate them I am going to show you why you actually really like them , there are a few reasons why you really do like them even though you say you don’t.  When I have finished here I really think you will be agreeing with me  that yes you really do like the add breaks , and that  they are really very useful  to you in many ways . Now before you start  going off and saying no I do not  , no you are wrong  wait till you read right to the end before saying that , as I might just prove you wrong , so many people say arrgghh  damm adds !! but when I have finished even you will see how helpful they are and in ways you never thought of  because let’s face it adds are not something people think about much except to go crook about.

Yes  I well know that the adds are there to sell things and to make money  for the manufacturers  or the sellers , but they do have a place in what we do  and now  I will tell you how , you ready  ? lol …

First and foremost we are watching a program and feel a sudden need to go to the loo , but you don’t want to miss the movie or show you are watching  so you sit on it , crossing your legs  lol as  I do all the time  , but why  ? Why do we wait  ? Guess why  ? Yes it’s for the adds ! Yes those adds you said you hated , now you cannot wait for them to be on so you can go  without missing the show  you were watching , See? right  there is the first  time those pesky adds have helped you , lol, and you said you hated the adds  …sheesh … So back to the show and now you remember a job you had to do , maybe it’s  bin night and you need to  put the bin out , but again you don’t want to miss the show , so once more you wait for the adds , then off you go. See? yet again the adds have helped you out of a tough spot . See how it works yet  ? lol ….

Right back to the show  ,and someone calls  out to you Hey! I’m hungry is there anything to eat ? What do you say  ? Yup you say  wait till the adds ! Again those adds you said you hate so much is about to save you from missing your show 1 more time , clever huh ? Have you ever stopped to think it through ? lol Bet you didn’t. So one more time back to your show  and as you watch you realise  there is something else you need to do , like dishes or laundry , because these adds are on 24 hours a day even if we are not watching they are always still there , so at any given point  you will be in the situation of waiting for the adds  so you can do this or that  so you don’t miss anything. So what did you say at the beginning of this ? I hate those damm adds  but now, do you really  ? Don’t you see now that they are actually very useful and do have a place in the scheme of things even if we say we don’t like them, they save us quite a lot of trouble 1 way or the other .

How we doing so far hey ? Have we got to the point where you will now admit that yes there are times when you do like them as they come in handy for marking time for you to get things done ? If we haven’t we should have but just to give you 1 more thing the adds help you in , what say you actually do need to buy something  ? Heaven forbid!! Now the adds are very important and you actually watch  them avidly  so you can compare prices , location , and a lot of other things , so now the add breaks are wanted and watched  rather than being called a pest.  Seeing as now you really do need something those adds are not so pesky now are they  ? lol They have gone from being pesky  to being wanted  , see what  I mean  ? lol So next time you start to say dammit the adds are on again just remember what we just said and realise they do have their place in our  TV watching and they do save us quite a bit of trouble . Also we can do quite a lot of shopping , or at least make notes of where things are and where the cheaper ones are thanks to the adds …All from the comfort of your lounge seat no going  out to do it . See ?? lol you do love the adds , you know you do …now!!  lol

I’m going to be productive today by making a list of things I don’t have to do and making sure I don’t do every one of them.

HUSBAND: What are you doing sitting in the fridge? ME: I was cooking tea and the recipe🙃 said to chill in the fridge for an hour.

Ooops

Ooops ….. This is a word we use so many times and do not even realise we are using it , it has become so entrenched in our daily lives , just how many times we use it depends on just how silly or lazy  we have been . Like we do our shopping for example and we  go off in a rush or online in a rush so sure that we know what we need without double checking . No double checking is  what we do   or not do because we are in a hurry and these days  we are always in a hurry  right  ? Back to the shopping we rush through , then when we get it home we put it all away and all is well right  ? Nope not a bit of it because during the week or month or however you shop  you suddenly run out of this  and that  several times …ooops …If only  you had done the double check ….

Sometimes what we forgot  does not matter that much  and we can wait till next time to get what we need , but sometimes it can be a real problem  , like if you forgot the toilet paper , or another tub of butter , because we were in such a hurry we forgot to check how much is in the tub …ooopps  now what will  we use to butter the toast ? It is all ok if you can just nick down to the shop and get  more but sometimes some of the things  we forget can make life quite difficult   but we did it to ourselves in our ooops moment . We didn’t stop and think …hmmmm…does anyone even think anymore  ??  lol Somehow  I very much doubt it , but it is high time we did don’t  you think ?

Sometimes  our oopps moment  is a right royal pain , if we are in so much of a hurry  so much of our time  imagine rushing out to go somewhere then half way  there  oooops we run out of petrol …now that is a huge oops  and can mess us right up for the day  while we get it fixed . That big oooppss  just cost us not only  time but money too if we are late for work and get docked for being late , so best we stop rushing about and take time out to check what we need to do before we go rushing out . Rushing out and about is what we seem to do more and more these days so we create more and more oops moments ,we really , really need to slow down and smell the roses  before there are no more roses.

Don’t  you love it when  the oops moment is a funny one because  someone else did it  ? Now yes  I know it is not nice to laugh when someone messes up but trust me sometimes it is funny . Like when hubby says it is ok we have more of that we don’t need anymore  only to find after all shopping done and sorted and put away  that ooops …errrm  that was the last one even though I told you we had some it seems we didn’t  ooopps bad hubby you didn’t check properly ….You like everyone else these days was in too much of a hurry to check it properly … Had you done so you now would not have to either go without or go get another one …This is almost as bad as not putting labels on things saying it is ok  I will remember what is in that ….yeah right  …lol . Some people can’t even remember what they went into a room for …lol yep me too sometimes .

Thinking along these lines  yes we do have way too many oops moments  in our lives because the world  is way too fast these  days but  I guess  as long as we don’t do ourselves  too much harm or cost ourselves too much money we might just get away with oopps moments . As long as we at least try to keep these moments to  a minimum we just might survive  but really we need to up our game to be able to keep things in order  and in order not to hurt ourselves too much . Thankfully the oops moments of running out of ink  in pens no longer matters or running out of  coins  for the TV  that used to be coin in the slot , man that was along time ago ..lol ..but boy they were ooopps moments big time way back then …

So before you do anything  anymore how about taking time to check and double check whatever you are doing  or where you are going to avoid too many oops moments . Really does not take too long to  do either and we can save ourselves  a lot of trouble and a lot of  oopps moments . The only people who can have oops moments  and get away with them are those on  TV as if they mess up all they have to do is stop  and re-do  the take again  but life does not give us this option , we cannot re-run life . So to all these oopps moments  I say nick off  … lol and will try not to have  anymore , no more oopps moments let us be more careful ….and try to bye bye the oops moments. ..

 

All my life I’ve wanted to learn to juggle. I just never had the balls to do it.

 

I’m a beer enthusiast. The more beer I drink, the more enthusiastic I become….