Archive | September 2018

What To Do ?

What to do ? When the silliest things happen and we just stop and think huh? What did we just do/not do then ? Like we go to the kitchen and decide to make coffee ok all fine , we get the kettle boiled we pick it up only to find we forgot to get the cup out * duh * lol what to do then ? lol throw up your hands and wonder  if you are even on the right plane/planet we all have these moments I am sure when something as simple as making a coffee goes wrong because of 1 little thing . Only takes 1 little thing to either mess up or you to forget the 1 thing to then give you a huh ? moment and do not tell me you haven’t done it either because I know you have .

What to do moments come in so many ways and you can never ever tell when it will hit you , personally I think it is a bit like a cat waiting  to pounce , it sees you are not really concentrating for 1 reason or another  and then *Wham! * lol , it hits you and leaves you wondering again huh ? The best thing about these what to do moments is the only thing they hurt is you  , lol, you are usually the only 1 that knows it has happened if you are lucky no one else is about at the time to see you stuff up .Things like that are the only good thing about these moments  usually you are alone and can hide the fact you had a huh? moment good aint it  ? lol

What to do moments though can also happen when you are out , like the other day we were at the local have a couple of drinks after a hard day sorting out our move and 1 of the friends we were with dear old  Frankie , lol a real character , anyway he gets up to go and go to the gents and get another drink in well after about 10 mins he comes back sits down and then says ****** lol he forgot to get the drink ! and if you know  Frankie at all you would know this really was a huh ? moment as he never ever forgets his drink !lol Well we just could not stop laughing really as he made it so funny and all at that table could not help but laugh , trust me he really is a funny bloke ..

What to do for us now is packing and moving we now have a lovely new house to go to in another state , and now we have the house secured we have all the joys of working out what to take and what not to ..oh joy apart from the fun of bubble wrap it is a pain in the proverbial  for us from here on in and we have to make sure if there are any huh ? moments they are corrected right away as we will not be able to fix them once we roll on out of here . Also we need to keep tabs on each other to make sure the other does not forget their jobs and also to make sure we do not forget what we have to do .What to do for us now is getting everything sorted and packed or sold if possible and just thrown out then arranging  for us and our stuff to get to new house …phew lol what a job.

What to do or not do from here too is that I will not be able to do a blog for the next couple of weeks or so  but will be back to them as soon as we are organised in our new place and re connected , so bear with me as we get this all done and wish us luck lol. The main thing though is house is secured and family are happy we are coming and are helping us get sorted and settled once we get there . Blogging will continue as I said once we have moved and are settled  etc , I hope you all enjoy reading these as much as  I enjoy writing them , so here’s to a short break while we leave here and go there .

Wear a smile every day – one size fits all 

A man’s gotta do what a man’s gotta do…and a woman will do what he can’t.

This entry was posted on September 19, 2018. 1 Comment

I Am Astounded

I am astounded today  or should  I say almost everyday  at how people  and the things they now do and accept as right  have changed , things we would never ever have even considered  let alone want to do or say is now common  and more times than not just appalling. Never ever years ago would we be trying to force down our childrens throats that  it would be ok for them to be ” whatever they want to be ”  no matter if that was something as totally idiotic as trying to change their sex , or trying to be what they aren’t  and not giving 1 iota of care as to how they make it happen . Children used to be taught love and respect  but now I will give you 100 to 1 odds  most children these days have no idea what respect really means , they are too busy being ” offended  ” by anything and everything  and the truth is long been thrown out of class just like the Bible .

I am astounded that people these days think only of themselves and what they want and think nothing of how they get it , even to the point of abusing others  who don’t do what they think they should do , even if they are wrong in what they think they will still abuse you for not doing what they say you should. Where have we as a society  gone so wrong as to be breeding these kind of people ? People who are so sure black is white etc. that they will hound you no matter what and will refuse to see the truth even if you show it to them ,and will never ever do any research themselves . Research like respect is another thing that has gone out the window because everyone now thinks they know everything and will abuse anyone who does not agree with them ,they are just too lazy to look for themselves that is too much bother.

I am astounded that with all the so called improvements to technology  and science  they still have not found their way back to common sense and decency , they still think and will stick rigidly to it that science is the way forward , when all we really need is to bring back all the old principles we used to know and teach . Somewhere and somehow all that was good and decent has been shoved aside so this almighty science can prosper and that money can still rule the world . The Bible though many hate it and refuse to believe  it says it very clearly ” Money answereth all  things ”  Just look around you with your eyes wide open for a change and you will see it for yourself. These days if you have money you can have anything almost nothing is out of reach if you have money and  it is getting worse everyday .

I am astounded that even with all the proof before our eyes we do not see what is becoming of our world and the people in it , we just seem to be so happy wandering around with heads in phones taking no notice whatever of what is going on around us and we see nothing at all we may as well be blind . Watching people these days is not the fun thing it used to be , just sitting and people watching now you watch them but for a different reason altogether , we watch them now to make sure they do not want to kill you or rob you ,when you walk these days you have to be so on  guard . Years ago I used to walk for miles and miles and loved it , these days it is nerve wracking not knowing if someone will come after you or an idiot driver texting and driving might run over you  all the joy of walking has just about gone.

I am astounded  at the advertising today too as  I have said before there are no standards of any kind now whereas there used to be things you just could not say in the adds now it is all open slather , short of actual swearing you can tell lies and no one cares. No one cares about anything much these days except  how it applies to them if it doesn’t then they do not want to know and could care less. As long as it does not cost them time or money then it is all ok , anything else can get lost they want nothing to do with it , and as for helping others they would rather rob them than help them and that is just so very sad  that the people of the world have become so dumbed  down that they are just like robots now programmed to just  a me, me,me existence and will not change anytime soon. Even the thought  of actually putting down the phone , walking away from it to help someone is just never going to happen anymore , now unless phone can be taken too no help will be given , we are so addicted to the damn things.


If you’re going to be an ass, remember to be a smart one; not a dumb one…

I recently took up meditating. It beats sitting around doing nothing…

To Lift Or Not To Lift

To lift or not to lift , have you ever got to a lift loaded  down  with things  only to find it full of all these fit  people who do not need it at all as there are escalators  and stairs all over the place? Also have you ever watched as people in wheelchairs or are in some way disabled  are just pushed to the back so the fit ones can get in first  ? Have you ever seen  mothers with little babies  who need to get into the lift also pushed  back so the fit ones , the ones in a hurry can get on . I cannot count the amount of times  I myself have been hurt physically  by all these fit ones as they just shove in and have not 1 bit of feeling for the people they are squashing in the life , just as long as they get on nothing else matters.

To lift or not to lift  have you also seen people who were struggling with loads of bags of shopping  just needing to use the lift also  just get shoved aside  as though they mean nothing ? Again I have seen this way too much , have seen  people just rudley push  their way onto a lift not minding 1 little bit  who else in either in the lift or really needing to get into it. Some people have been pushed  so much or so hard they have dropped  their things and did anyone help them  ? Nope you guessed it not 1 person helped , not 1 thought it was disgusting that they had been pushed so hard  that they dropped their stuff  and  I just find this appalling  as  I hope most other people would too.

To lift or not …the  very worst of the places to have to use a lift is at the railway station  it is an absolute nightmare  sometimes as people are so intent on trains or busses they have to catch they will push their way in no matter what and no matter who they hurt. This once again is something I have suffered as  I cannot use stairs  I must use the lifts , even ramps are too painful for me  so as these fit people  rush in push you out of the way they add extra pain  where really you do not need it , but as usual what they want is all they think of  and nothing else . Usually I love trains and busses as they give you freedom to get out when you do not have a car but when these things happen it can not only ruin your day but also add to the injury you have or whatever , it is just so wrong and  I just wish it would stop  and people would start to care again though no I won’t hold my breath for this any time soon .

To lift or not  when and where did all this I want the lift  so I will use it , even if I have no reason to be using it at all I want it and that is all that matters ? When did all this happen and why did we not do anything about it  ? I would never use 1 if I didn’t have to  it has always been my thing if you want to put it that way , that do not use something if you do not need to leave it for those that do , that is to me the right way to do things . Other people’s need before my own  taught myself that a very long time ago so when I see all this deliberate pushing and shoving and not caring  1 little bit for others it just breaks my heart that things have come to this state.

To lift or not should never even be a question  if you are fit enough to use stairs or escalators they why would you even think of causing so much hurt just to get on a lift you do not need ? Like I said before to me it is appalling that this even happens  as it just makes life so much harder for people  but as usual no one seems to care . Hoping 1 day  that things will change for the better  but do not see it happening anytime soon as with people now being so busy all they do is rush around and most of the time with head buried in phone or with earphones in so not even  listening to what anyone else says and not on the planet either so do not even notice the people they are helping to hurt . Seriously please if you do not need the lifts leave them for those who do , and yes this is a bit of a rant but still I think it needs saying as only the other day I got hurt in 1.

When I said “I wanted to be held” I didn’t mean “by the Authorities”….

Don’t read this. I said don’t. Why aren’t you stopping? OK read on if your stupid. Still reading?